12 RULES FOR LIFE – AN ANTIDOTE TO CHAOS – by Jordan Peterson – An Excerpt

I started listening to him some weeks back through an YouTube video forwarded by a friend of mine. In that video he was extensively talking about his thoughts on post-modernism and the immense harm the post-modern ideology is doing to the world. It struck me, till now I have been exposed to the 'left liberal'...

As I Grew Up…Physically.

The Ambivert

I was born a chubby and a cute kid. I was dressed in pretty frocks and everybody seemed to love me. I received a lot of attention. As far as I remember or at least what I understand through the photographs, I was loved and wanted. I don’t remember much.

As I hit my puberty, I was supposedly a fat, hefty, bulky kid. I grew my breasts early when I was in my 5th standard. My body hair too was quick to arrive in the armpits, legs and arms. Pretty clothes did not fit me. I had a curly and frizzy hair. So basically I became an ugly kid now.

I was told that it is not good to grow breasts so early by my mother and my aunt. Immediately I started hating my breasts and blamed myself for growing them, like I purposefully grew them. Body hairs were made…

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